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The "B" Word

 

Author: Jacquie McTaggart

Former students would probably attest to the fact that few things tried my patience as much as did the statement, This is boring! As I reflect back on my many years in the classroom, I cant help but feel a tad bit sorry for the first kid who made the mistake of uttering those words each year. (It was rare to hear the phrase a second time because most kids vividly recalled my sermon, and they didnt want to risk a repeat performance.)

The sermon went something like this. Nobody is BORED in my classroom. I work hard to plan fun and interesting activities that will allow you to learn. When you finish your work earlier than others, there are many choices of quiet things to do. You may use the book nook, puppet theatre, computer, writing center, art center, or the manipulative math corner. Now please, do NOT let me hear the word bored again!

I suspect that each school years first offender felt like Calvin in one of my favorite Calvin and Hobbes cartoons. In the first two frames Calvin is sitting at his school desk looking totally bored, but saying nothing. In the third frame Calvin screams, BORRRING! In the final frame Calvin is heading for the Principals office muttering, Yeah, yeahkill the messenger.

Although not many kids made the mistake of verbally uttering the B word a second time, I suspect they thought it (or mouthed it to their friends) more than once. Why do all teachers and many parents - hear this complaint on a somewhat regular basis? Is it because most kids find the day-to-day classroom work too easy? Not hardly.

Contrary to popular opinion, the bored child is not always the academically gifted child who is not being challenged. As a matter of fact, that is rarely the case. More often than not, the bored student is one who is frustrated because he is not really understanding the material being presented, or does not yet possess the skill that he is being asked to demonstrate. (None of us like to admit that we arent up to doing a task that were expected to accomplish, or that we havent the foggiest notion about what is being explained to us. And for most of us, its easier to say, Im bored than it is to say, Im struggling.)

When a student of any age - that includes the high school kid - says he is bored, he oftentimes means something quite different. He is really saying, This isnt fun. This is work and I dont want to work. I want to be entertained! Furthermore, I dont understand what she (the teacher) is talking about or what I am supposed to do. In the mind of the student (albeit subconsciously), his cry of boredom shifts the blame and the responsibility from himself to the teacher.

If the child is unlucky, the boredom syndrome will give the parent a hook on which to hang criticism of the teacher, and no one will win. The parent blames the teacher, the teacher reacts defensively, and the child continues to flounder. An opportunity for helping a kid gets lost somewhere between the pointing fingers of the parent and the defense mechanisms of the teacher.

And what do I suggest you do if your child says, School is boring? Run (forget walk) to the telephone and request a conference with your childs teacher. Advise the teacher of your concern. Assure him that you are not requesting a conference to assign blame to anyone, but rather to get his opinion as to what is really going on in the classroom that might prompt a declaration of boredom. I can assure you that your childs teacher will appreciate your concern and do everything possible to work with you to determine the cause, and work toward a solution.

Boredom, after all, is a form of criticism.


-William Phillips

*This article is an excerpt from Chapter 8 in my book, From the Teachers Desk. http://www.booklocker.com/books/

Author Bio:
Jacquie McTaggart is a champion in this field. Jacquie has written several articles in the past on this topic.
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